A few weeks ago we took a much-anticipated (at least by me and Max) beach vacation to Kure Beach, NC. Even better, Ben, Les, and Benny came (constant playmate for Max? check!) and so did Mimi and PopPop (oh, and let's not forget Lucy and Bailey).
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| Bailey did great on the 5 hour car trip. Max did remarkably well also...yes, those are his pants under Bailey's face. |
I will admit that I was hoping that Max might have calmed just a tad since
our last beach vacation, which we spent taking turns chasing him up and down the beach with very little relaxing. The first day on the beach, it actually looked promising that this might be the case. Max was extremely excited about "crabs", "o-cean", and digging in the sand with Benny and did manage to (somewhat) stay in one spot for a while. Also, the slightly overcast weather combined with the fact that school had already started back made for a wonderfully non-crowded beach...much easier to watch a wild child without lots of people around!!
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| Yes, that is Chris in the background...fishing. |
As always, our little dare-devil was looking for adventure. On a casual "beach walk" with Mimi, Pop Pop, and Benny, Max managed to create his own excitement by leaping into every "hole" he came across. What he doesn't stop to consider is the fact that, contrary to what he
thinks, he really doesn't know how to swim. Thank goodness Pop Pop is hyper-vigilant! See if you can follow the chain of events as they happened below:
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| Ok, I'll help you. Going for a walk with Mimi and Pop Pop; Leaping into a hole and becoming submerged completely underneath the water; leaving PopPop for dry land; Being taken in by the much more cautious Mimi. |
I had delusions of managing to get some cute family photos at the beach. What was I thinking? First of all, I somehow managed to come down with the worst cold I've had in YEARS while we were there, so I looked like a puffy, squint eyed weirdo; and secondly, Max had NO interest in taking pictures with the sick weirdo and the unshaved fisherman. For our situation, this one isn't too bad (thanks for your patience, Les!) I mean, a smile from Max would be asking too much; the fact that he's actually looking at the camera is impressive in itself.
Kure Beach, NC is a cute little town. While the house we stayed in was really nice and totally modern, the majority of the hotels and restaurants, etc look like they haven't been updated since the 80s. I happen to find that charming - for example, one of the hotels near the house was called "The Salty Hammocks." Hilarious. Ben and PopPop spent at LEAST a half an hour exploring the Civil War Fort in town,
Fort Fisher. And we even managed to tour the
Fort Fisher Aquarium on a rainy afternoon.
We also enjoyed an afternoon exploring the
Riverwalk in Wilmington, NC. I would have actually loved to spend a day exploring Wilmington (and not just because one of my favorite shows,
One Tree Hill filmed all over town) but I think the other members of our party weren't as into it.(Ok, but here is the location of one of the key spots in One Tree Hill; the Rivercourt. There used to be a basketball court to the left of this battleship where that covered area is. Not that anyone cares except for me).
It was slightly hot as we walked along; but it sure was pretty. And the Ludwigs can't pass up an opportunity for a good family photo. Let's try this again!
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| Not a bad attempt; minus the closed eyes. But Pop Pop as photographer only has patience for one shot. |
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| Note to self: this is NOT a flattering maternity top. |
Yeah, par for the course. I call this: Anatomy of a Family Portrait:
And Chris calls this next one: Fun Times With Fatty:
So finally we got a decent family portrait. Nevermind that someone is missing.
Here he is; just pretend that he's present above.
But mostly, we just enjoyed playing on the mostly empty beach and in the pool at the house. By the second or third day Max had resumed his running wildman routine...but he sure did sleep great at night. I had worried about him sleeping alone in a strange room, but he actually slept much better there than he did in the week before we left for the beach at home. (In fact, better than he has slept in the weeks since too, for that matter).
Max discovered a new calling - Bird Whisperer. He heard that seagulls like to eat fish....he just didn't really understand that goldfish aren't exactly the same thing. The birds were happy with his scraps, though.
And Chris discovered, perhaps, that fishing isn't his true calling...or did he?
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| I love this picture. There are so many possible captions. But I'm not going to use any of them. |
I think the boys really enjoyed their cousin bonding time, and got along remarkably well the whole time for two toddlers. I was hoping that maybe Ben's laid back nature would rub off on Max a little bit, but I think actually Max had Ben running wild amongst the dunes with him by the end of the week.
All-in-all, a fun trip. And I've just had to come to the realization that vacations from now on will NOT involve leisurely reading endless books and relaxing, but will be more likely to include running at top speed and wrestling children into submission. So be it. These are memories we're making :) And by the looks of this happy face, we're making some good ones.